BobW Feb 12, 2013
How would you feel if that guy came back into your life? It sounds to me like your dream is pointing up what you may be ignoring in waking life: you want both; but know you can only have one. (If the roles were reversed, I'm pretty sure you wouldn't be too cool with sharing your fiance with another woman.)

That your waking focus was on the ex suggests pretty strongly you're not over him. How sure are you that you want to proceed with engagement and marriage to #2?